Fatherhood, Manhood and Faith. Taking the steps to break the cycle of the absent black man.
Friday, June 19, 2015
Move into the Blessings....
Daddy's Love....
This will be my first father's day. Before becoming a father, i prayed to my heavenly father to fix my broken heart from the absence of my earthly father that i may be a great father to my child. It's funny because for 28 years i had anger towards my father and at the moment of birth of my daughter, the anger for a man i never knew was gone. A fathers love for his child is special. My job as a man changed. I am now a protector, a provider, and a teacher. God made man in his image, his likeness. The bible says, "for it gives your father great happiness to give you the kingdom." A father is giving and generous, but he will not give to the point of destruction and hindrance. Most men give things to show his love, but i have learned that giving does not replace time and attention. Be your child's hero. Kids are easily satisfied. So don't over think things. Be there. Be goofy. Be caring. You be DADDY forever. Brotha's stop letting your baby mama be an excuse to be an absent father. It's selfish to have a fatherless child. Daddy's love is something the mother can't give. Something that shapes and moods a child. Fellas stop being baby daddy's and more fathers. Less about the mother's and more about the child. Happy father's day to ALL men even the absent men.
Trust the Detour
There was a blind girl who hated herself just because she was blind. She hated everyone. She was blind since birth so she blamed God. She had multiple surgeries to "fix" what God had done to her and nothing worked. One day she talked to God. She expressed her hatred for Him. The next day a pair of eyes were donated to her. She could finally see. But when she looked at her world, she had no family. She found out that as a child her father murdered her mother and brothers as she was in the same room. She was devastated. God spoke to her and said, "I didn't give you eyes because if you saw what your earthly father had done, it would have blinded you from the purpose I have prepared for you." We lean so much on ourselves, we forget about the reason we live. Following God's lead without knowing where he's sending you. Waiting for God's timing without knowing when it will come. Expecting a miracle without knowing how God will provide. Trusting God's purpose without understanding the circumstances. So many times when we don't understand Gods plan, we depend on self. Sometimes God doesn't allow us to see the whole plan because there are road blocks in the plan that will knock us off the course of our purpose. God provides the neccassary detour that is not always the best route. Trust God no matter the circumstances.
Wednesday, June 17, 2015
Had a Song on My Heart and....God Spoke to Me.
Friday, June 5, 2015
Compounding Defects.....
Prayer:
Lord, I ask You to build Your godly structure in my life, family, and those around me built upon love, faith and hope, and to tear down ungodly structures built on selfishness, pride, and selfish ambition. I repent for myself and my ancestors for building ungodly structures based on our agenda, pride, honor, fame, self-centeredness, greed, rebellion, and worship of self instead of worshiping the One True God. In Jesus Name, Amen....